Here are a few rules that will help you cope better with an emergency:
1. It is important to carry out all the preparations that the authorized bodies (the I.D.F., the Home Front Command, the local authority, etc.) have instructed to make.
2. Identify those factors that helped you in the past when you had a problem or were stressed, and use them. Every person has his/her own unique coping tools (physical activity, talking with a friend or a relative, being with people one is close to, gathering information about the situation, faith, etc.). It is possible that something that helps one person is useless to another.
3. Being active (as opposed to being passive and idle) increases the feeling of control of the situation. Help yourself and others.
4. Make sure that your physical needs – food, water, rest, and sleep – and those of your family are taken care of.
5. Express your feelings. The ability to express one’s feelings is a sign of strength, not of weakness. It is important to hold a family talk (led by one or both parents) whose goals are strengthening family support and the feeling of togetherness, expressing the different thoughts, feelings and responses of family members during the extended period to show that these are normal and common to other people, and creating a sense that, despite the difficulties, it is possible to carry on. Thus the family becomes defined as a significant source of support for all its members.